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Lost everyone  
Gained power:

"I don't need to rely 
on others anymore!"
My mother was poisoned when I was only two. My father was killed in the war. My stepmother hated me. And my grandmother, the only one who really cared about me, was murdered during a vicious attack on our village. I fled to refugee camp Kakuma. It was difficult in the beginning. But now I run my own salon, thanks to the support of AAH! My life has changed adequately and I don’t need to rely on others anymore! I'm Teresa Adit John from South Sudan. I'm 27 years old and single. My mother was poisoned to death by an unknown person when I was two. I was left under the responsibility of my elder sister and grandmother. My father was a soldier and didn’t pay a lot of attention to me. He remarried and I missed the parental care and love. In 1994 war broke out in my country and our village was attacked mercilessly. My uncle, relatives, and other community members were killed. My father was in the war and we assume he was killed too. We never heard of him up to today. It was painful for me. We fled from our country and came to Kakuma. My stepmother led us through the journey to Kakuma. The journey was full of challenges. We did not have enough food, water and clothing. However, through the will of God, we managed to arrive in Kakuma safely. We found life in Kakuma difficult. The food was poor (we ate the same food every day), climate was hot and dry and language and cultural differences were challenging! Besides, our stepmother could not provide additional support. So, we merely depended on the food provided by UNHCR. And in 2004, when the war in South Sudan stopped, we decided to go back to our country. Life there was a bit better for us. However, our stepmother became more and more angry with us. She started to hate us. The trust and love in the family was lost and she quarrelled with each and every one of us. This situation scattered the family. My brothers and elder sister went to different directions. I still don’t know where. I remained with my grandmother because she was weak and no one else took care of her. However, in 2013 another civil war broke out in the country. We were attacked seriously in our village and everyone run for safety. But unfortunately, my grandmother could not walk and she commanded me to join the neighbors who were running for safety. I teamed up with the neighbors and we moved to the forest. After journeying for a few days we arrived in Kakuma. Later I learned that my grandmother had been killed. My heart was broken because she was the only person in this world who stood with me in all situations. While in Kakuma, I decided to stay with the neighbors who came with me. They were good to me. They treated me like their own daughter. I completed primary school but dropped out secondary school because life was becoming too hard for me. I decided to look for other means of survival rather than suffering in school. I moved to Nakuru and was warmly welcomed by my best friend. And her mother treated me like her own child. There, I got a job in a salon of a Kenyan lady. I was happy because that was what I wanted. After sometime, I decided to study cosmetology at the Biashara Center Institute – thanks to my savings from my work in the salon. In my heart, I knew working in another person’s business would not help me. So, when I completed the course I moved back to Kakuma and started my own business in 2018 with the financial support from a good friend in Australia, the Teresa Beauty Salon. Unfortunately, a thief broke into the shop at night and stole everything. I was left with nothing. Luckily Action Africa Help International (AAHI) issued me a loan of Kes. 70,000. And I used this loan to reopen my salon. Currently, my salon is progressing successfully. I am really grateful to AAH because without their support, I would have not gotten the capital to restart my business. My business is important to me because it's everything to me. I depend on it for all my basic needs. Now my life has changed adequately and I don’t need to rely on others anymore. I am independent. In addition, the business is helping the community in different ways. Girls and women are now getting all the required services just within the community. Besides, I train women from the community, and they have now started doing something positive in the community. Also, I have created employment opportunities. I employ three women in my business and their lives have changed because they are able to support their families financially. I am grateful for the AAHI-business incubation, for the training that they accorded us. We were trained on how to run and develop a successful business. And we were trained on effective communication skills and relationship building with the clients. I had benefitted a lot from this business incubation. The training has helped change my managerial skills. Now I serve my customers without barriers. Lastly, my dream is to expand this business in order to reach out to more people in and outside Kakuma!
Interested to get into contact with Teresa? Email: info@i-am-kakuma.online

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