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Top scorer women soccer hides in refugee reception center, afraid that her uncle will try to marry her off to a polygamist
I am a top scorer in women soccer in Kakuma, but I stay in the refugee reception center for years now, afraid that my uncle will try to marry me off to a polygamist. My name is Yomjima Konyi Korok, 21 years old and a single mother of two kids. I got these kids from a boyfriend who has broken up with me. He said he can't marry me since I don't belong to his tribe. I have three sisters and one brother. I was born in Kakuma Refugee Camp from a single South Sudanese mother. I was raised in the camp, but we lived in South Sudan for a few years. In 2007 my mother took us there, because life in the camp was too hard. We were able to practice farming and make life somehow better. Until tragedy struck us in 2009. My mom was bitten by a dog and having no medications for her, she died in the same year leaving us behind with nobody. I didn't believe my eyes seeing my mom being buried on that fateful day. It was my first time I bitterly cried. One of our uncles took us to his home. He took control of us and started mistreating us. He forcefully married off all my sisters. When I turned 15 in 2013, he told me to get married to his friend, a polygamist. He threatened to kill me if I didn’t. I couldn’t sleep that whole night and thought of escaping to Kakuma. Next day me and my brother ran off. We found ourselves in the Kakuma reception center where we were given food ration cards again. And after all these years we still live in the reception center, because we have no one to stay with, and I fear my uncle may send someone to come and take us back by force if he hears we are back in the camp. The reception center is a safe place for us. But life in Kakuma is very hard. We depend on the little food we get from the UN, which is never enough. We have good neighbor though who give us food sometimes when we almost starve of hunger. To distract my mind from all the stress, I went to school and I played football every opportunity I got. This helped me forget the sufferings. I play football for almost seven years now. I have never won any trophy with my team. But I won top scorer in the Kakuma Girls League twice, including last season. My dream is to become a professional football player and to be seen on television playing in a big stadium like Santiago Bernabeu of Real Madrid. I love the playing style of Messi. The only challenge I face is lack of playing kits and playing boots. I do play barefooted and that makes me injured easily. For matches I sometimes manages to borrow shoes from friends. Most of the girls in the league cannot afford to buy shoes. Another challenge many girls face in Kakuma is their traditional belief that doesn't allow girls to play football like boys do. It's always hard for the mothers to allow their girls to go out to play football. I prefer living in a good place, I want to one day play in Sweden. Sweden has good team for women. By practicing hard, I will make it to reach far with my talent for I believe where is will, there is a way. I want to succeed in life so that I can be able to inspire and help my fellow girls who are suffering. 
Interested to get into contact with Yomjima? Email: info@i-am-kakuma.online

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